So, CHA, you're a veteran of the waitress wars. Here on the Leelanau Peninsula, waitresses are known for being the sweetest women there are. Also women you don't wanna cross. Oh, and good tippers, if a server delivers the dishes when as soon as an order is up, and tops off the cup when the coffee gets low. They've been there on the front lines, so they appreciate how hard a good server works.