Regarding “Now you know…”, nope, I don’t, and I wouldn’t expect to - not until we’ve talked a few afternoons over coffee, Wild Turkey, or whatever you like. I’ve read your stuff. You’ve been around the block a few times. Achieving “Now you know” with women like you takes some doing. Sounds like your man is willing to put in the effort. You didn’t wait until your forties to get married. You waited until the right man came along. At least, that’s how it seems from your writings.